Monday, 2 September 2013

Things Your Mother SHould Have Told You



Tips and Tricks everyone can use


I have to admit, I’ve not tried all of these so if you do and they don’t work please let me know...

THINGS YOUR MOTHER SHOULD OF TOLD YOU
1. Stuff a miniature marshmallow in the bottom of a sugar cone to prevent ice cream drips.
2. Use a meat baster to “squeeze” your pancake batter onto the hot griddle and you’ll get perfectly shaped pancakes every time….
3. To keep potatoes from budding, place an apple in the bag with the potatoes.
4. To prevent eggshells from cracking, add a pinch of salt to the water before hard-boiling.
5. Run your hands under cold water before pressing Rice Krispies treats in the pan and the marshmallow won’t stick to your fingers.
6. To get the most juice out of fresh lemons, bring them to room temperature and roll them under your palm against the kitchen counter before squeezing.
7. To easily remove burnt on food from your skillet, simply add a drop or two of dish soap and enough water to cover bottom of pan, and bring to a boil on the stovetop.
8. Spray your Tupperware with nonstick cooking spray before pouring in tomato-based sauces and there won’t be any stains.
9. When a cake recipe calls for flouring the baking pan, use a bit of the dry cake mix instead and there won’t be any white mess on outside of the cake.
10. If you accidentally over-salt a dish while it’s still cooking, drop in a peeled potato and it will absorb the excess salt for an instant “fix me up.”
11. Wrap celery in aluminum foil when putting in the refrigerator and it will keep for weeks.
13. Place a slice of apple in hardened brown sugar to soften it.
14. When boiling corn on the cob, add a pinch of sugar to help bring out the corn’s natural sweetness.
15. To determine whether an egg is fresh, immerse it in a pan of cool, salted water. If it sinks, it is fresh, but if it rises to the surface, throw it away.
16. Cure for headaches: Take a lime, cut it in half and rub it on your forehead. The throbbing will go away.
17. Don’t throw out all that leftover wine: Freeze into ice cubes for future use in casseroles and sauces.
18. If you have a problem opening jars: Try using latex dishwashing gloves. They give a non-slip grip that makes opening jars easy.
19. Potatoes will take food stains off your fingers. Just slice and rub raw potato on the stains and rinse with water.
20. To get rid of itch from mosquito bites, try applying soap on the area and you will experience instant relief.
21. Ants, ants, ants everywhere … Well, they are said to never cross a chalk line. So get your chalk out and draw a line on the floor or wherever ants tend to march. See for yourself.
22. Now look what you can do with Alka Seltzer. Clean a toilet. Drop in two Alka-Seltzer tablets, wait twenty minutes, brush and flush. The citric acid and effervescent action clean vitreous china. Clean a vase. To remove a stain from the bottom of a glass vase or cruet, fill with water and drop in two Alka-Seltzer tablets. Polish jewelry. Drop two Alka-Seltzer tablets into a glass of water and immerse the jewelry for two minutes. Clean a thermos bottle. Fill the bottle with water, drop in four Alka-Seltzer tablets, and let soak for an hour (or longer, if necessary). Unclog a drain. Clear the sink drain by dropping three Alka-Seltzer tablets down the drain followed by a cup of Heinz White Vinegar. Wait a few minutes, then run the hot water.
45 Cooking and Baking Tips
  1. When boiling milk, first stir in a pinch of baking soda. This will help keep the milk from curdling.
  2. Add one teaspoon of lemon juice to each quart of water when cooking rice, this will keep rice fluffy.
  3. First rinse raisins, dates and figs in very cold water before putting them through the food chopper. They will not form such a gummy mass.
  4. For crisper salads: Place a saucer upside down in the bottom of the salad bowl before filling with salad. Excess moisture will run underneath the saucer and this will help keep the salad crisp and fresh.
  5. Tasty flavored whipped cream: First whip cream then add 2 tablespoons of flavored jello and continue beating on slow until the whipped cream is right consistency.
  6. Leftover ham: Lay ham slices in a baking dish then cover with maple syrup. Refrigerate overnight then fry the ham in butter the next morning.
  7. Add a dash of lemon juice into meatballs before cooking them.
  8. You can substitute crumbled cornflakes for bread crumbs when making meatloaf.
  9. When a recipe calls for butter the size of an egg, use four tablespoons.
  10. Cookie & Cake Decoration: Keep a small amount of sugar in small glass jars, add a few drops of food coloring and shake jar. Keep several colors on hand. You can also use this technique on shredded coconut.
  11. Pickle Juice uses: Use sweet pickle juice to thin salad dressing or make French dressing with instead of vinegar, more delicious.
  12. Cook vegetables with one or more bouillon cubes instead of saltimproves flavor. Tossing in a few garlic cloves when boiling vegetables makes things tastier too.
  13. Salt added to flour used for thickening gravies, etc., will help to prevent lumping.
  14. Chilled evaporated milk, whipped until fluffy, may be used as the base for several frozen desserts by the addition of different flavors, fruits, nuts, instant coffee, cocoa, jello, and other flavorings. Then add coconut, drained fruits, etc., as desired. Use easy crusts such as crushed cereal or crackers such as graham.
  15. After crimping the edge of the pie crust, lift the edge of the crust gently all around with your fingers. This keeps the dough from sticking to the dish while baking and makes it easier to take out the pieces of pie.
  16. Place crackers, dried bread, cookies or sugar which has lumps in a sturdy plastic bag (make sure it has no holes). Roll with a rolling pin or fruit jar as coarse or as fine as you like then pour into a measuring container. If you have more than you need at the time, just tie the bag and place in a pantry or freezer for later use.
  17. A teaspoon of sugar mixed with your yeast and water makes it raise better. Even if you are making bread you can use some sugar. Never mix salt directly with the yeast and water mixture as the salt kills the raising action.
  18. Keep brown sugar in a closed container with an apple in it, the brown sugar will stay soft and moist.
  19. Grate orange and lemon peel before peeling. Dry and add to spice cake or any cookies or puddings. The dried grated peel will keep well in a covered jar.
  20. Wrap parsley in foil first, then freeze. Shave off as much as needed, rewrap and return to the freezer. It will retain its flavor and freshness.
  21. For fried foods that require flouring, try pancake flour for a change, its quite nice.
  22. To keep peeled potatoes from turning dark without putting them in water, wrap in paper towel and wet under the faucet.
  23. Baking bread? Do not preheat. When you light your oven, pop in the bread pans immediately and you’ll be amazed at the resulting lightness of the bread.
  24. Toast oatmeal in the oven before adding to other ingredients when making oatmeal cookies-delicious!
  25. Add two teaspoons of vinegar to jello and it will keep the jello from melting when you serve it.
  26. If you scorch milk by accident, put the pan in cold water and add a pinch of salt. Takes away the burned taste.
  27. Add a few sprigs of fresh peppermint to leftover tea while it is still warm, then refrigerate. Serve over ice.
  28. Roll pastry on waxed paper. Before placing paper on work surface, wipe surface with a damp cloth to prevent slipping. Flour paper lightly, and with forefinger draw a circle an inch and a half larger than the pan you intend to use. You’ve seen pastry cloths with guidelines…and they really do help. When pastry has been rolled out, pick up paper pastry and all. Fit into pan, paper side up and then pull paper away from crust. Prevents tearing or stretching twist paper and pan. Another nice tip: You can also roll pastry between two sheets of waxed paper.
  29. If it is a meringue pie you are making…add four or five marshmallows cut into pieces or 1/2 cup miniature ones, to meringue just before spreading. These marshmallows give both flavor and body to the meringue. The latter is important if pie is to stand for sometime before serving.
  30. Lemon juice or vinegar in water where cauliflower is cooked makes it keep its white color.
  31. To pare pineapple easily cut into rings and peel each slice separately.
  32. Add a slice of lemon to peeled sweet potatoes while cooking. The lemon will help them clear and free of discoloration.
  33. A tablespoon of minute tapioca sprinkled in apple pie will absorb excess juice while baking.
  34. Add one teaspoon baking powder to mashed potatoes to make them fluffy.
  35. Dip the blades of shears in hot water before cutting marshmallows, they wont stick.
  36. Have a small bowl of melted butter and just brush on corn on the cob with a pastry brush. If you have a metal bowl you can put a chunk of butter in the bowl and set on grill to melt while meal is grilling.
  37. For bananas that are ripe and ready to eat but you have too many, peel the bananas and freeze them then dip in melted chocolate and freeze again, these make a nice treat!
  38. Fill a large hole or sugar shaker with flour and use that when needing to dust surfaces with flour or just pour out a tablespoon as you need it, this is handy way to keep a bit of flour on hand instead of digging in the flour bin.
  39. Use pastry wheel to cut rolled cookie dough in squares or diamonds, much less rolling and very pretty.
  40. Rinse measuring cup in hot water before using syrup, oil, etc. Will pour out clean and not stick to cup.
  41. Canned fruit is much better if opened and removed from the can an hour or two before using to restore the oxygen.
  42. When making popcorn balls, slip plastic bags on your hands when shaping them, wont stick or burn your hands.
  43. A wire cheese cutter is ideal for cutting chilled refrigerator cookie dough.
  44. To liven up day old bread or rolls you can put the bread in a large bowl and place in a pot with a shallow level of boiling water. Remove from heat and cover the pot to steam the bread briefly. The bread will be warm and soft in a couple minutes. You can also use stale breads to make big batches of breadcrumbs and delicious homemade croutons.
  45. An ordinary funnel makes the best cooling rack for your tube cake pans.

Sunday, 25 August 2013

Cars/Angry Birds Mash-up Party

A month before my son's birthday, I asked him "What kind of party would you like for your 3rd birthday?"  He enthusiastically yelled out "Lightening McQueen!!!" which I gladly agreed to, from Disney Cars.  I purchased the balloons, the pinata, the table cloth, made a banner, printed out free templates  (http://www.great-kids-birthday-parties.com/disney-cars-birthday-party.html) and was excited to start planning the kids' games for his special day.  

Well, a week later, my son decided he would much rather have an Angry Birds party.  I called up my
 friend who was already planning to make an eggless/peanut-less CARS cake and kindly asked her to change it to an Angry Birds one....thank God she didn't get angry with my request.  Back to the stores I went and realized it wasn't so difficult to grant my son's wish.  

By the way...I did both...just for the fun of it :)








Saturday, 13 April 2013

The Cost of Hiring a Wedding Planner

April 23, 2013 by Gaitree Shivnauth   


There is a great saying:
“If you think hiring a Professional is expensive, wait until you hire an Amateur.”
-Red Adair
We can speak for days about the cost of NOT hiring a trained, certified wedding planner, but today let’s talk about what it actually costs to hire a wedding planner.
The average cost of wedding services varies a little across this great country of ours due to demand, experience, and the cost of running a business in the area the wedding planner is operating in.  Some wedding planners have to buy permits for each area they work in, others do not.  Some areas have much higher marketing costs, while others have minimal marketing costs, so here is a guideline to show what average costs are.
Remember:  Prices will be higher depending on the level of experience of the wedding coordinator and the level of complexity of the wedding.
Average cost of hiring a Wedding Planner across Canada:
CONSULTING
Description of Service: Consulting is for couples who need help getting started or who have hit a road-block in their wedding planning. Consulting can be a one-time meeting or an on-going service.  A normal session takes 2 hours and includes a telephone consultation prior to meeting in person.
Cost:
  • Cities: $150 for the first hour, $50-100 each additional hour.
  • Towns: $100 for first hour $50 each additional hour.
MONTH-OF COORDINATION SERVICES
Description of Service: This is the most common service of a wedding planner.  This service is for those who have planned everything themselves and need someone to help finalize the details and coordinate the actual wedding day for them.  Without a professional wedding planner handling all the details, who will make sure everything you planned actually happens?
Cost:
  • Vancouver, BC $1,500+
  • Edmonton, AB $800-1,500+
  • Red Deer, AB & surrounding areas  $600-1,000+
  • Calgary, AB $800-1,500+
  • Saskatoon, SK $600-1,000+
  • Regina, SK $600-1,000+
  • Winnipeg, MB $600-1,000+
  • Waterloo, ON $600-1,000+
  • Toronto, ON $800-1,500+
  • Niagara, ON $800-1,500+
  • Montreal, QC $800-1,500+
  • Moncton, NB $600-1,000+
  • Charlottetown, PE $600-1,000+
  • Halifax, NS $600-1,000+
  • St. John’s, NL $600-1,000+
**BEWARE of people charging less than these prices!  They are undercutting the industry and it is usually due to a lack of experience or training.

FULL CORDINATION
Description of Service: This service is for couples who would like a wedding coordinator working with them throughout the entire wedding planning process.
Cost:
  • 10-15% of your total wedding budget is the average cost of a wedding planner.
  • They may charge using the percentage model or they may charge a flat fee.  Flat fees for Full Coordination are $2,500-5,500, based on area and experience.
  • If you require the design services of your wedding coordinator, you will also be charged a “Design Fee” as well.
BEWARE of people charging less than these prices!  They are undercutting the industry and it is usually due to a lack of experience or training.  There have been many scams recently where “professionals” have offered rock-bottom pricing in order to secure clients and then closed up shop before the clients’ weddings, taking their money with them.

Wednesday, 16 January 2013

Jumping the Broom: An African Wedding Tradition & Custom


Jumping the Broom



PHOTO CREDIT: ITSABLACKTHANG.COMPIN IT
A very common term in the African American community when a couple gets married is… “Jumping the Broom”.
Although the exact meaning has been distorted over the years (a long with a lot of African American historical cultural traditions), it has been used to signify the union of an African American Bride and Groom.
It has been said that during slavery when African American couples could not legally get married (because they were considered property), the antebellum south incorporated “jumping the broom” in front of witnesses to signify their eternal love for each other and their vow of a “married” life together.
PHOTO CREDIT: STARTUM.COMPIN IT
Typically placed on the floor before walking down the aisle, as husband and wife, and exiting the wedding ceremony.  Someone (usually a very honored woman) will place the broom on the floor and give an explanation of what the broom and jumping over the broom signifies.  The audience is typically asked to give a 1-2-3 count off and then the couple leaps over the handle of the broom… followed by a roaring applause.
PHOTO CREDIT: WWW.STARTUM.COMPIN IT
Every couple makes jumping the broom unique to them and the flow of their day.  Some brides and grooms will wait until they enter the reception to allow all their wedding guests to attach personally autographed ribbons to the broom that the bride and groom can read later and keep as beautiful decoration and a source of inspiration and guidance in their new home together.
PHOTO CREDIT: STARTUM.COMPIN IT
It is a beautiful tradition that seems to often be incorporated in African American weddings still today.





http://www.weddingwindow.com/blog/jumping-the-broom/

Friday, 19 October 2012

How to put together a Wedding Planning Notebook


Post from http://justlovelykatherine.blogspot.ca/2012/06/www-how-to-put-together-wedding.html

 I love lists. Lists for everything! There is something so satisfying in making a to-do list and marking it off as you accomplish tasks. Don't you agree?! I also need to have a tangible, in-my-hands planning tool in order to stay organized. I put together this Wedding Planning Notebook so that I could have everything in one place. After doing some research, I've added in lists, forms, and lots of things I had no idea I would need for planning our wedding! (The printables will link back to their original source)

I purchased all my products from the Martha Stewart office line. If you don't want to make your own planner, as I did, Martha has a pre-made planner for just $25. (I spent more than that on the binder, dividers, etc.) I got all my things from Staples, and they are beautifully color coordinated and pretty! I bought the binder, clear zip pouch, sticky notes, dividers (x2) and calendar.

 Now of course you can organize your binder however best suits you, but here is how I organized mine, what I have put in it, what I'm going to be adding to each section and how I plan to use it.

First up, the clear zip pouch I have used for fabric samples, business cards, etc. The sticky notes are for, well, notes (duh!) and I've used the little tabs for making additional sections by putting them on pieces of hole-punched card stock to serve as subcategories within the blue dividers.


After this I have the calendar. I do obviously have a colander on my computer (that is synced with my iPhone) but I like to have an actual paper & pen calendar too. (edit: I haven't actually been using this. I'd suggest you save your money.) I think this helps with long term planning. I will have dress fittings, cake testings, etc on here, but more importantly deadlines! I want to keep track of when payments are due, contracts have to be signed and final decisions made.

After that I have 10 blue dividers. I have broken them down into these categories:
  1. Important 
  2. Budget
  3. Ceremony
  4. Reception
  5. Guests
  6. Attire
  7. Photographer
  8. Florist
  9. Rehearsal
  10. Miscellaneous. 

Within these categories I have added subcategories and worksheets and checklists that I printed from the web.



  1. Important
  2. Budget
  3. Ceremony
    • Copy of Ceremony text
    • What to Ask Your Wedding Officient
    • List of processional & recessional order
    • Contracts
    • Officiant contact information
    • Cost & tips
    • Music to be played and any musicians contracts, contact info and fees
    • Decor
    • Any seating arrangements and reserved seating 
    • Program
    • Confetti 
      • (Clearly all these items won't actually be going in the binder, but I will put the order forms, receipts, etc in there to make sure I keep track of it all and that I have completed it all.)
  4. Reception
    • Timeline of reception (dance, cake cutting, toasts, flower toss, exit, etc)
    • Music
    • Rentals (separate subcategory) w/ contract (see bottom for link to template) 
    • Decor
    • Setup info and instructions
    • Menu
    • Beverage List
    • Playlist with noted special songs (1st dance etc)
    • List of who will be giving toasts
    • List of people to thank at reception
    • Favors
    • Cake
    • Guest Book
    • Photo booth (if we end up having one!)
    • Exit sparklers
    • Reserved seat signs
    • Toasting glasses
    • Band contact information, pricing, tips etc
    • All relevant contracts
  5. Guests
    • Guest list (I will probably do all this in a  spreadsheet)
      • Mailing address
      • RSVPs
      • Dinner choices
      • Gifts received list
      • Thank you notes sent
    • Guest hotel information
    • Welcome bags
  6. Attire
    • Bride
      • Schedule of fittings etc (this is redundant, but I want it here too) 
      • Dress
      • Jewelry
      • Bag
      • Shoes
      • Lingerie
      • Veil
    • Groom
    • Bridesmaids
      • Dresses
      • Accessories
    • Groomsmen
    • MOB
    • Ring Bearer
  7. Photographer 
    • Contract
    • Must-have photo list
    • List of everyone needed for photos - break this down into names (i.e. Courtney, MOH)
    • Any props (Don't think we will have any)
  8. Florist
    • Contract
    • Pricing & budget
    • List of arrangements for Ceremony
    • List of arrangements for Reception
    • List of bouquets
    • List of boutonnieres 
    • Flowers for family members
  9. Rehearsal
  10. Misc...
  11.  

Sunday, 2 September 2012

Everything I Do (I do it for you) | {Catherine and Steve}

Church; Birks 3520 University St 
Transportation:  Giovanni
Hair: Streaks 
Florist: La Vie en Fleurs 
Photographer: Dominic Ilanganathan 
Video: Arthur Cormon
Reception: Holiday Inn La Plaza 
Entertainment; Shine Productions













Monday, 23 July 2012

Finding "The One"...Your Wedding Dress


FINDING “THE ONE”…YOUR WEDDING DRESS.

By: Amy Maier, WPICC

FINDING “THE ONE”

I managed a bridal salon for almost 6 years, so I consider myself somewhat of an expert in the area of wedding gowns.  During this time, I had the privilege of helping hundreds of brides find “the one”.  I LOVE to go wedding gown shopping with my brides because there is nothing better than seeing a bride light up when she puts on the gown she is going to walk down the aisle in.
Wedding gown shopping can be a stressful and overwhelming experience, especially for those brides that do not enjoy shopping (GASP! Yes…there are people who do not love shopping; I am as shocked as you.) Thanks to the plethora of reality shows out there on weddings and wedding gown shopping (which I PVR weekly and watch while eating various fried and sugary foods in my sweatpants) brides seem to think they need to cry, faint or have a religious epiphany before they commit to a dress.
 “HOW DO I KNOW THIS IS THE ONE? WHAT IF I MAKE THE WRONG DECISION? WHAT IF I SEE ONE IN A MONTH I LIKE BETTER? WHAT IF I LOSE WEIGHT?” ARGAHHHHHHHHHHH!
All great questions. Allow me….
  • How do I know this is “the one”?
I often tell brides that shopping for a wedding gown is like shopping for a sweater.  Just a much heavier, prettier, more expensive sweater…. It has been my experience that most brides tend to over think and over complicate wedding gown shopping. Looking online at 300,000 dresses before you even set foot in a store is not how you find a wedding gown. I don’t know about you but I am not a 6ft, size 2 model (if you are then I’m sorry we cannot be friends) and looking at a gown on the aforementioned supermodel, do you really think you will be able to tell what it will look like on you? Wedding gowns are unlike any other piece of clothing you have had on, so get your fabulous butt into a bridal salon, get yourself a good consultant (or your wedding coordinator to go with you!) and just start trying things on!
- Do you feel beautiful?
- Is it in budget?
- Do you love everything about it?
If the answer to all three of these questions is yes…ask yourself, “Why am I hesitating?”
  • What if I make the wrong decision?
If you trust your own opinion you will not make the wrong decision.  That is all.
  • What if I see one in a month I like better?
Wedding gowns are like everything out there, there are new, different ones coming out all the time. As my very wise, fellow bridal consultant Janice says “Buying a gown is like buying a car, once you put the money down you stop looking, be happy with what you choose and drive the one you bought.”  .  If you keep looking after you purchase a gown you will drive yourself (and more than likely everyone around you) crazy.
  • What if I lose weight?
More than likely you don’t even need to lose weight, this is some weird pressure all brides put on themselves. If I had a quarter for every bride who told me they wanted to lose 20lbs I could buy that Prada bag I have had my eye on. PLEASE buy your gown for the size you are now, if you lose weight then you take the dress in. Do you really want to stress out for 6 months about your weight while waiting for your gown to arrive? I would much rather have that giant piece of cheesecake at dinner thank you very much.
Shopping for a wedding gown should be a stress free experience full of laughs (sometimes tears) fun, and excitement. No matter your size, shape, budget or style there is a gown out there for you, I promise!
Amy Maier owns Head Over Heels in Edmonton, Alberta.  She is a certified wedding coordinator through the Wedding Planners Institute of Canada and has been in the bridal industry for more than six years as the manager of one of Edmonton’s largest bridal salons. Amy’s professional background outside the wedding industry is in purchasing and cost control which makes her a very well rounded event planner. She is also trained in conflict resolution management…which can come in very handy!

Friday, 8 June 2012

Clinical Rotation: Administering Medication


        I was so eager to be able to administer medication for my patient last Thursday, however my son fell ill and I needed to nurse him instead.  I was able to be present at clinical on Friday.  Despite being busy or tired as a full-time student and a full-time mom, I must say that the experience as a mother is beneficial during clinical.  Having patience, empathy and being nurturing towards our patients is what they need, while still encouraging independence to do things on their own.  Since we only have one patient for now, it is a lot easier to give all our focus and concentration on that one person.   I observe or assist my fellow classmates with their patients as well, and look forward to being capable of handling more by the time we graduate.
 
        My patient is a stroke patient on tube-feeding through a peg.  She was persistent in asking to eat and drink early in the morning. I explained to her how she was receiving all her nutrients straight to her stomach.  I had to repeat myself, more than a dozen times, that she was restricted from having anything by mouth because she has trouble swallowing.  She did not understand why her medication was administered through the tube either.  We all want to prevent her from aspiration or pneumonia, until she passes her swallowing assessment test.  Her loss of short-term memory also prevents her from remembering whatever I have explained.  After breakfast, I bathed her in bed and groomed her afterwards.  Again, I find this part of the head to toe assessment fairly easy since I am always bathing a little one who cannot yet do so on his own.  I brushed her hair afterwards and did oral care.  My patient expressed how much she liked it because nobody brushes her hair.  I don’t know if she just doesn’t remember but I’m glad I did that little thing for her.  I asked was what colour of lipstick she used to wear – and she replied “red” and then laughed that she was an old lady now.  I handed her crossword puzzles after sitting her up in a chair and told her I would return to her in a little while.  Even though she is a ninety-three year old woman with a CVA, atrial fibrillation and congestive heart failure, I think about how I would want to be cared for, or how I want my mother or my sister to be treated like.   My compassion for her was given--- all before I even found out that she has no children, no family nor friends to visit.   I am looking forward to the following clinical day next Thursday.           


Friday, 17 February 2012

Filipino Traditions: Candle, Coin, Veil, and Cord

Filipino Traditions: Candle, Coin, Veil, and Cord

Filipino Kasal kasal (kas´al) n. wedding

The Philippines is a country rich in traditions that were originally introduced by Spanish missionaries. At a traditional, Filipino wedding, many sponsors are present to witness the union of the couple. The sponsors symbolize guidance and support: a group of individuals that the couple can refer to in time of need.

The candle, arrhae (coins), veil, and cord are four traditions routinely witnessed during a Filipino wedding. Filipinos feel strongly about their heritage and actively incorporate their traditions into their weddings.
The whole wedding thus takes just a little bit longer, and a few more participants are required, but it certainly makes for a more memorable wedding day!

Candle 
The candle represents two families joining together as the bride and groom start their new life together as one.

Coins or Arrhae (ar-rah-heh) n. earnest money
The ceremony of the Arrhae represents the groom’s dedication to the welfare of the bride. It signifies the bride and groom’s mutual hope for wealth, prosperity, and security as they build their lives and family together. The metal tinkling of thirteen coins being passed from one pair of hands to the other signifies abundance and success in the couple’s joint efforts.

Veil
The veil is a symbol of the faithful and everlasting love the bride and groom have for each other. Through the passing of the years, it will remind them that they belong to each other, and that their love becomes more beautiful in self-surrender that are total and pure.

The Veil Sponsors will pin the veil from the groom’s shoulders extending to cover the bride’s head and shoulders. It also symbolizes unity of the two families into one.

Cord 
The cord symbolizes the love and friendship that bind the couple together, and the figure eight shape represents the infinite nature of matrimony.

The Cord Sponsors will drape the yugal (a decorative silk cord) over their shoulders.

Ninang and Ninong * Godmother and Godfather
These are women and men whom the bride and groom respect & admire. They are, as in the early days of the Church, sponsors of the couple attesting to their readiness for marriage and freedom to marry.

These are often aunts and uncles or close friends of the family. In the Philippines, they are the official witnesses of the state and they sign the marriage license. Worldwide, their participation is a tremendous honor and symbolic of the wisdom & support they shall offer the new couple. The number of sponsors can vary from a single couple to many couples.