Time Management for Mom Bloggers

Written by Suzi from Start a Mom Blog

How do I manage my time as a blogger who is also a mom? I get this question all the time.

It may be because I launched my blog in January, had my second baby in February, have an energetic toddler running around trying to potty train, wrote an ebook in one month and had a successful launch in June. It’s now July and I am working on a new, very exciting project.

I can give you the quick and obvious answer – wake up earlier or stay up later. And even though I do that, I get up at 5:30 am with my husband. That is not the only reason why I am productive.

To truly manage your time well you need to manage your focus. I used to have loads of time in college but I wasted most of it relaxing and being young. Oh how I wish I could have all that time now, I would conquer the world. But I don’t have 24 hours a day anymore to myself, I have 2-3 hours a day, on a good day.

Have a No List

I have a large poster on my wall divided into two columns. On the left side are post it notes with things and activities that I have said YES to. And on the right side are activities that I have said NO to. This gives me a visual of all the activities I have committed to. It also alows me to quickly see if I am overcommitting myself.

I love being a tired and stressed mom said no one ever. We all have a very limited amount of time and emotional energy. If you spread yourself too thin you won’t be able to do anything well.

This visual board enables me to say no easier.

Have a Simple System

My second trick is to use a system to schedule my life. On another large poster I have the week mapped out. On Sunday night I write down all of my activites for the week and my entire to do list on post it notes. Each task is on a different color depending on how long it will take.

I then schedule them on my weekly board. If I do not complete the task on the designated day, I can move the post it note to another time. Again, this visual management works wonders for getting things done and staying focused.

Focus & Write an Ebook in a Month

At the beginning of May I created my outline for my ebook. I knew what helped me as a mom who blogs, so I wanted to pass on the knowledge and resources. I also know the struggles that mom bloggers go through.

Not being able to focus on anything for longer than 10 minutes. Being pulled in a million different directions. Finally sitting down to blog and then the baby wakes up. The struggle is real. It’s frustrating.

So I wanted to share all the templates and guides that help me blog smart.

I went through each process of starting a blog and outlined the most essential and crucial steps. My ebook would be a step by step guide. It would be like painting by numbers but for blogging. That focus helped guide my mentality.

Also, instead of explaining what makes a good blog post or a great pinnable image, I provided examples. The ebook is filled with visuals. I would rather see an example than read 500 words. The information is quick to learn and easy to implement.

How Can You Do It Too?

The entire month of May I only allowed myself to be on social media for quick promotion and checking in. I did not network or chat with other bloggers or friends. I needed to stay focused. Going cold turkey works for me.

Many of you may not agree with my method. It may not work for you. But having just one focus for the month was critical.

I know how easy it is for me to waste the entire baby’s nap time chatting on Facebook. It is one of my favorite parts of blogging – the networking with other wonderful moms. But I was very strict on myself and stayed focused.

After I created the outline of my ebook I completed one section every day. I broke down a huge task into bite size bits – and slowly I completed it. At the end of the day if I had completed a section, I celebrated with a glass of wine. Sometimes two.

In All Honesty, It Took a Bit of Luck.

And in all honesty, starting and completing an ebook in one month while in the trenches of motherhood took a bit of luck. No one got sick. There were no big events we had to plan or attend. Life was normal. I had a routine and had time to work each day.

So please do not be hard on yourself if you have been putting off creating that product for months, or years.

A mom’s life is continuously changing. Be kind to yourself.

The Results – 2 Months Post Launch

I launched my ebook, Blog by Number on June 1st. It has almost been two months now and I am beyond thrilled on how well it has done. I have a large team of affiliates who have signed up to help me promote the book. I have also received nothing but great feedback and reviews! I get emails daily from bloggers who are not moms asking if they can purchase the book too – and of course the answer is yes – it is still super helpful!

Daily I get notifications of sales going through. It truly is an amazing feeling building my business while being a stay at home mom. I am beyond blessed.

I want other moms to be able to do this too! Never before has it been so easy and inexpensive for a woman to take on motherhood and be able to build her own brand all from home. Just imagine how large your blog will be a year from now if you just start today.

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Invitations

Allow at least three months before the wedding to order the invitations and prepare them for mailing. Always order more than you need in the event that you make mistakes or have last-minute add-ons.  

Have place cards, response cards and thank-you notes printed at the same time, adapting your design to suit each.  You should not use stationary with your married name until after the wedding, so some brides order a small supply of cards with the initial monogram of their married name to send thank-yous for gifts that arrive before the wedding.

Invitation Style
The formality of your wedding should dominate your choice of invitations.  The most traditional ones are printed on white or ivory paper, are folded on the left like a greeting card, and feature wording just on the top page.  Popular variations highlight the wording within a panelled border or include a personal insignia, whilst others are printed on cradstock or on layered sheets affixed with a bow.

If you're having a super-coordinated theme for the day, you'll want the invitations to capture the essence of that: bright sunshine colours for a tropical theme, using snowflakes for a winter wonderland feel, and enclosing tiny sequins hearts for something more glitzy.  With the wealth of art materials and scrapbooking supplies available - paper that is crinkly at the edges, foil-backed or studded with glitter, and pearly or metallic embossing paints, you can let your imagination run riot....or keep it clean, neat and simple - Whatever suits your style.

Once you have chosen the paper-style, you'll need to select a font style and whether you prefer engraving or thermography.  Formal or semi-formal events typically call for a graceful, flowing script while less formal weddings are better suited with a roman style.

Indeed, if you want to veer away from tradition, consider sending a wedding invitation in postcard format, or including a novelty gift with the invitation.  Just keep in mind that the most important thing is that the guests are aware of the details of the wedding and turn up on the right day!

Invitations should be mailed between four or six weeks in advance of the wedding.  Those being sent to another country should be posted at least eight weeks in advance to allow enough time.  Save the date cards should have been sent prior to the wedding invitations...or at least, from word of mouth.

Invitation wording is important.  Since the details of any two weddings are never alike, the wording of invitations varies with each bridal couple and the particulars of their individual wedding celebration.

Invitation Inserts

The invitation and response cards are placed within an envelope addressed with the names only of the recipient.  This is inserted into a fully-addressed envelope for mailing.  Other elementsmay also be incuded:

• A map with directions to the ceremony and reception
• Details of overnight accomodations
• Any food allergies should be notified for the menu being served
• Wedding Website created by the couple, if any.